My heart says play more guitar but my fingers say stahp
I think that the movie should fix the blatant errors in 50SoG…
Y’know, like making the whole thing a bit more consensual…
Anonymous said: What's so abusive about 50 shades? It's how BDSM works
Okay. I am rather pissed at the moment but I will do my best to explain.
First of all, NO. That is not how BDSM works. The BDSM culture is not about ‘being abusive to the submissive.’ It is about trusting your Dom and having a special relationship to TRUST one another to be in that kind of relationship. The Sub is TRUSTING the Dom to take care of them and I could go on.
I will give you an example from the book. There is a scene where Christian spanks Anastasia and does a few other things before just leaving her alone. YOU DON’T FUCKING DO THAT. She is left crying and shaken and that is NOT HOW IT WORKS.
There is what you call after care where the Dom cares for the Submissive and makes sure they are alright. YOU DON’T JUST FUCKING LEAVE THEM ALONE.
So anon, no. THAT IS NOT HOW IT WORKS.
"A new study shows that men are threatened by confident women taking pictures of themselves, and call these women stupid, socially inept, and ugly. In other news, the world is round, the sky is blue, and the patriarchy is still shitty."
Guess what though, that study only had women and teen girls as their subject pool. So it’s women who are hating on women for posting sexy selfies. Good job assuming it’s men though.
lmfao I remember my ex telling me how into unnatural hair colors he was.
and I was just a;dlkfjasdlfkja;sdlkfja I CAN’T AFFORD TO DYE MY HAIR
at that time at least
plus my mom was really against me doing it for some reason
and now I’ve got purple mohawk and my bf has a purple mohawk and I get really bad service in restaurants sometimes BUT